- Whether he has a vision for his future. He has his own pre-set goals and visions. He is self-motivated, and he doesn’t need others to push him to realize his vision and goals.
- How he treats people that provide service for him. When you go grocery shopping, to restaurants, and to see a movie. How does he interact with the grocery clerk and the waiter/waitress. If this man devalues people in general, chances are he will end up devaluing you.
- What is mentality about his role in the relationship. Does he perceive himself as a provider, protector and builder. Does he care for your needs as much as you care for his needs.
- Look at his family background. Did he have a positive male figure in his life? Although there are some men that are able to develop a strong sense of being good husbands without having positive role models. Statistically, men who are exposed to positive male role models tend to become positive men themselves in future relationships
- Does he have a strong sense of value and ethics. However at the same time, he possesses an air of open mindedness. A man that can balance these two forces, shows you that he is capable of being in relationship whereby everything is not always “black and white” and you need a person that is willing to engage in a fair amount of compromise and understanding
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